{"id":1688,"date":"2024-09-21T09:10:25","date_gmt":"2024-09-21T02:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/?p=1688"},"modified":"2024-09-21T09:10:25","modified_gmt":"2024-09-21T02:10:25","slug":"bi-quyet-vang-giup-con-tu-tin-ket-ban-trong-cuoc-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/en\/bi-quyet-vang-giup-con-tu-tin-ket-ban-trong-cuoc-song\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u00cd QUY\u1ebeT V\u00c0NG GI\u00daP CON T\u1ef0 TIN K\u1ebeT B\u1ea0N TRONG CU\u1ed8C S\u1ed0NG"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n? C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u. Sau c\u00f9ng, k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang t\u01b0. Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u00e0 Ba M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng. N\u1ebfu Ba M\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n \u2014 v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n \u2014 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xung \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 ho\u1eb7c c\u01b0 x\u1eed theo c\u00e1ch g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh c\u00e1c m\u00f4n ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. \u0110\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3i<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd khi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 tham gia v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c, \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n v\u00e0 th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u (v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9) cho nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch d\u00e0i, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0i gi\u0169a nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi kinh nghi\u1ec7m, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao Ba M\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch. K\u1ebft b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 \u1ea3o thu\u1eadt. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 12 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft v\u00e0ng m\u00e0 Ba M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con t\u1ef1 tin k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b> Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi con. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111e d\u1ecda, tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ho\u1eb7c &#8220;t\u1ed1ng ti\u1ec1n&#8221; v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch Ba M\u1eb9\u00a0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t n\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a con.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5, h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i theo ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea5m \u00e1p th\u1ea5p v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u00e0nh vi th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda, h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i theo ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi (Lansford v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2018). V\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Ba M\u1eb9 \u2014 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c thao t\u00fang tr\u1ebb em th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, s\u1ef1 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 r\u00fat lui t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u2014 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n k\u00e9m ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng (v\u00ed d\u1ee5: Cook v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2012).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi Ba M\u1eb9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u2014 l\u00fd lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2014 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u01a1n theo th\u1eddi gian.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng (Pastorelli v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2015).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00edt hung h\u0103ng h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn h\u01a1n (Brotman v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2009; Sheehan v\u00e0 Watson 2008; Hastings v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2007).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><b> H\u00e3y l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac\u201d c\u1ee7a con.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00edch k\u1ef7. Li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang c\u00f3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta duy tr\u00ec t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n Ba M\u1eb9 th\u00ec sao? Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5, trong m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc Ba M\u1eb9 \u2014 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 5 tu\u1ed5i \u2014 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh. Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u theo d\u00f5i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ba M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang \u2014 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u2014 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n (Blair et al 2013). V\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd th\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n khi Ba M\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng (&#8220;Con ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n th\u00f4i!&#8221;) ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t (&#8220;\u0110i v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a con \u0111i!&#8221;) v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh (Davidov v\u00e0 Grusec 1996; Denham 1997; Denham v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 1997; Denham 1989; Denham v\u00e0 Grout 1993; Eisenberg v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 1996).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi tr\u1ebb em bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, Ba M\u1eb9 n\u00ean d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y theo c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><b> Nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 &#8220;\u0111\u1ecdc suy ngh\u0129&#8221; c\u1ee7a con.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean sao? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, nh\u01b0ng &#8220;t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean&#8221; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 &#8220;t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3&#8221;. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 Ba M\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin, h\u00e3y xem b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><b> H\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n cho con tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m l\u00fd x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t lo l\u1eafng. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Con c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng Ba M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec con khi con\u00a0 c\u1ea7n. V\u00e0, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n lo\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 an to\u00e0n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u01b0ng khi tr\u1ebb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng lo \u00e2u, ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n th\u00eam s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu Ba M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3, con c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u2014 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i (Pearcy v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2020) v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n (Lessard v\u00e0 Juvonen 2018).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu con \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 lo l\u1eafng cao, h\u00e3y trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i lo ng\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Ba M\u1eb9 v\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129 nhi khoa ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho ch\u1ee9ng lo \u00e2u l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng, bao g\u1ed3m li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p h\u00e0nh vi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con (Seligman v\u00e0 Ollendick 2011).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0: \u0110\u00f4i khi, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u1edf m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi hung h\u0103ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i, b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a con, Ba M\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm cho con m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi \u2014 nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 ho\u1eb7c nh\u00f3m vui ch\u01a1i \u2014 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1690 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/portrait-young-girl-student-attending-school-300x218.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"676\" height=\"491\" srcset=\"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/portrait-young-girl-student-attending-school-300x218.jpg 300w, https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/portrait-young-girl-student-attending-school-1024x742.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/portrait-young-girl-student-attending-school-768x557.jpg 768w, https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/portrait-young-girl-student-attending-school-1536x1114.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/portrait-young-girl-student-attending-school-2048x1485.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 676px) 100vw, 676px\" \/><\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><b> D\u1ea1y con b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u1ec3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi, tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe t\u1ed1t. V\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch cung c\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u2014 \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0o c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n vui v\u1ebb, c\u00f3 \u0111i c\u00f3 l\u1ea1i (Feldman v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2013).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ngo\u00e0i ra, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb em nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i khi ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u201cl\u1eafng nghe t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u00fa \u00fd \u2014 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan (Bierman 1986).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00e0 theo c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Fred Frankel v\u00e0 Robert Myatt (2003), Ba M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n tr\u1ebb em tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0a ra cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng m\u1eb9o c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 sau:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi, h\u00e3y trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u\u00a0 \u201cth\u00edch\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u00edch\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u1eebng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. H\u00e3y cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u1eebng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u00ean n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. Khi tham gia v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi. Khi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, h\u00e3y cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Con c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y th\u1eed g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n video tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><b> T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c \u2014 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea1nh tranh.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb em h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u01a1n khi tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c \u2014 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f9ng nhau h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau chung (Roseth v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2008). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang khi tr\u1ebb em ch\u01a1i (Gelb v\u00e0 Jacobson 1988).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb em g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd Ba M\u1eb9 n\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ebb tr\u00e1nh xa c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u1ea1nh tranh, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n (Frankel v\u00e0 Myatt 2002).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Fred Frankel v\u00e0 Robert Myatt \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean b\u1ed5 sung n\u00e0y: N\u1ebfu con c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i ch\u01a1i chung, h\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, h\u1ecd khuy\u00ean Ba M\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u1ea5t v\u0169 kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ef5. N\u1ebfu con c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 Ba M\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u1ea5t n\u00f3 \u0111i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi bu\u1ed5i ch\u01a1i k\u1ebft th\u00fac.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><b> Ch\u1ec9 cho con c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f3 x\u1eed.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, Sophie, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau. Sophie mu\u1ed1n tham gia c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Victoria Finnie v\u00e0 Alan Russell \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y cho c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con \u0111ang h\u1ecdc m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200b(Finnie v\u00e0 Russell 1988). V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn, h\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Ba M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">H\u00e3y th\u1eed tham gia tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb em \u0111ang ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i trong nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng, h\u00e3y xem con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham gia d\u01b0\u1edbi vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng m\u1edbi hay kh\u00f4ng?.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u1eebng g\u00e2y r\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con tham gia, \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean h\u1eefu \u00edch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t cho con. V\u00e0 Ba M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p l\u1edbn h\u01a1n t\u1eeb nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y: Tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i khi ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f3 x\u1eed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><b> Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec; tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f9ng anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf b\u1ea9m sinh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y. Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u01b0ng Ba M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb em \u2014 b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a con \u2014 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eadp vai y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0a ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho c\u00e1c xung \u0111\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh (Shure v\u00e0 Spivak 1980; Shure v\u00e0 Spivak 1982; Vestal v\u00e0 Jones 2004; Boyle D v\u00e0 Hassett-Walker 2008.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb em tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ch\u00fang trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. L\u1ea7n t\u1edbi khi con c\u00e3i nhau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Gi\u00fap con ngh\u0129 ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li><b> D\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n sai l\u1ea7m. Ch\u00fang ta g\u00e2y ra t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra ti\u1ebfp theo? N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c &#8220;b\u1ecb h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf&#8221; v\u00ec nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, Ba M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ba M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3, o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu Ba M\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Ch\u00fang ta suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n b\u00e8.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em \u2014 ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb em m\u1edbi 4 tu\u1ed5i \u2014 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00ec h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng xin l\u1ed7i. V\u00e0 khi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat (v\u00e0 tinh t\u1ebf h\u01a1n), ch\u00fang ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y th\u1ee7 ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u2014 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang quan s\u00e1t th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn (Oostenbroek v\u00e0 Vaish 2019).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 xin l\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c t\u1ecf ra h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Trong m\u1ed9t th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m tr\u00ean tr\u1ebb em 6 v\u00e0 7 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi k\u1ebb vi ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed5 t\u00f2a th\u00e1p m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Tr\u1ebb em tha th\u1ee9 n\u1ebfu k\u1ebb vi ph\u1ea1m xin l\u1ed7i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu k\u1ebb vi ph\u1ea1m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00fap ch\u00fang x\u00e2y l\u1ea1i t\u00f2a th\u00e1p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (Drell v\u00e0 Jaswal 2015).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi \u2014 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb em c\u00e1ch h\u00e0n g\u1eafn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ch\u00fang c\u00e1ch xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 cho nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li><b> Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 cho l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 dai d\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi t\u00ednh tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con, Ba M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Gi\u00fap con xem x\u00e9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch thay th\u1ebf cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tai n\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi ph\u1ea1m \u0111ang c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi ph\u1ea1m ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh c\u1edd c\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng anh ta.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb em suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch thay th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ebd tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o th\u1ee7 ph\u1ea1m (Van Djik v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2019).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em qu\u00e1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb l\u00e0m sai. Ch\u00fang t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh khi b\u1ecb h\u1ea1i v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i (Luchies v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2010).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho t\u1eebng tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"11\">\n<li><b> Theo d\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u1eebng tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u2014 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi con l\u1edbn l\u00ean.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c nhau cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu Ba M\u1eb9 ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang (Parke v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2002).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u00e1m s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh\u201d, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t n\u01a1i tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf ch\u01a1i; <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a con khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con k\u1ec3 cho Ba M\u1eb9 nghe v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m trong th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u0169ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi Ba M\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i \u0111i ch\u01a1i.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Con s\u1ebd \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi ai? Con s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Con s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nh\u01b0ng Ba M\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 \u2014 v\u00e0 d\u1ecda nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng \u2014 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 can thi\u1ec7p. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb em cho r\u1eb1ng Ba M\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, trong m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng Ba M\u1eb9 ch\u00fang \u0111ang l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng quy\u1ec1n h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (Tilton-Weaver v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 2013).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i cho con c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a Ba M\u1eb9 theo c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a Ba M\u1eb9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed theo \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">M\u1eddi Ba M\u1eb9 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con trong<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/en\/khoa-hoc-online-ky-nang-cho-the-he-tuong-lai\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Online courses \u2013 Skills for the future generation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> c\u1ee7a Soul and Skills \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t nh\u00e9!.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(Ngu\u1ed3n:<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/parentingscience.com\/kids-make-friends\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Parenting Science<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">)\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n? 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Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/en\/bi-quyet-vang-giup-con-tu-tin-ket-ban-trong-cuoc-song\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">B\u00cd QUY\u1ebeT V\u00c0NG GI\u00daP CON T\u1ef0 TIN K\u1ebeT B\u1ea0N TRONG CU\u1ed8C S\u1ed0NG<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":485,"featured_media":1689,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tin-tuc"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v19.11 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>B\u00cd QUY\u1ebeT V\u00c0NG GI\u00daP CON T\u1ef0 TIN K\u1ebeT B\u1ea0N TRONG CU\u1ed8C S\u1ed0NG - Soul and Skills<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/en\/bi-quyet-vang-giup-con-tu-tin-ket-ban-trong-cuoc-song\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"B\u00cd QUY\u1ebeT V\u00c0NG GI\u00daP CON T\u1ef0 TIN K\u1ebeT B\u1ea0N TRONG CU\u1ed8C S\u1ed0NG - Soul and Skills\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n? 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