{"id":2311,"date":"2024-11-15T09:48:34","date_gmt":"2024-11-15T02:48:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/?p=2311"},"modified":"2024-11-15T09:50:27","modified_gmt":"2024-11-15T02:50:27","slug":"ba-me-thac-mac-tai-sao-be-lai-hanh-dong-nhu-vay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/en\/ba-me-thac-mac-tai-sao-be-lai-hanh-dong-nhu-vay\/","title":{"rendered":"BA M\u1eb8 TH\u1eaeC M\u1eaeC: T\u1ea0I SAO B\u00c9 L\u1ea0I H\u00c0NH \u0110\u1ed8NG NH\u01af V\u1eacY?"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, r\u00ean r\u1ec9, \u0111\u00e1nh nhau,.. t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fac h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 khi b\u00e9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ba m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c!<\/p>\n

Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 chuy\u00ean gia s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Ph\u00e2n T\u00edch H\u00e0nh Vi Ch\u1ee9c N\u0103ng (Functional Behavior Analysis – FBA). FBA th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p cho tr\u1ebb em thu\u1ed9c ph\u1ed5 t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc g\u00e2y c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb, ba m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 \u1edf nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

B\u1ed1n Ch\u1ee9c N\u0103ng C\u1ee7a H\u00e0nh Vi<\/p>\n

Trong Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng, “ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng” \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ph\u00eda sau h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng. Ba m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a th\u00e1m t\u1eed, suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 b\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng h\u00e0nh vi trong FBA:<\/p>\n

1. Tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n
\n2. Ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3
\n3. Nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd
\n4. K\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 ch\u00fang \u2014 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt m\u00e0 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u2014 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ba m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

1. Tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh v\u00e0 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00e0nh vi. B\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m (ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0103n rau, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p, l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp\u2026). Khi b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee n\u00f3i: “M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i khi gi\u1edd to\u00e1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh r\u1ed3i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda c\u1eeda.” C\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh g\u00e2y r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i. \u201cC\u1eadu \u1ea5y \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 khi quay l\u1ea1i l\u1edbp, gi\u1edd to\u00e1n \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac.\u201d<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n:<\/p>\n

– Khen th\u01b0\u1edfng cho h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00fang b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e9. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e0n \u0103n l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n, b\u00e9 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0103n m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda s\u1ed1 b\u00f4ng c\u1ea3i Brussels. Vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng cho b\u00e9 l\u00e0m \u00edt h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u00e9 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 tr\u00e1nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 c\u00f3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed1t.
\n– H\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn: Th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o cho b\u00e9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t h\u1eb9n gi\u1edd. Khi \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tranh c\u00e3i hay th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u2014 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap b\u00e9 l\u00e0m. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1eb7c \u00e1o kho\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1eb7c \u00e1o cho b\u00e9.
\n– Khen ng\u1ee3i khi b\u00e9 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i: Ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ngay c\u1ea3 cho nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0 c\u1ea5t gi\u00e0y hay t\u1eaft TV ngay l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ebd khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

2. Ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1edbi c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 (k\u1eb9o ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i) ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng (s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng iPad).<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0103n v\u1eb7t, m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 anh\/ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 \u0111ang ch\u01a1i, ho\u1eb7c th\u1eddi gian s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng iPad. \u0110\u00f4i khi, th\u1ee9 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng; \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 trong si\u00eau th\u1ecb: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua c\u00e1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u201cC\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?\u201d S\u1ef1 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i cho b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m. Nghe quen kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t t\u00fai b\u00e1nh quy.<\/p>\n

C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u00e1c s\u0129 Lee nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 r\u1eb1ng sau khi con h\u1ecd n\u1ed5i c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn v\u1ec1 kem, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0103n \u0111\u1eadu ph\u1ed9ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang \u0111i ng\u1ee7 khi b\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00f3i. Trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00f4 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng th\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadu ph\u1ed9ng, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kem.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi khi b\u00e9 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh:<\/p>\n

– T\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng:<\/strong><\/em> \u0110\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u00e9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi v\u00e0o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 k\u00edch th\u00edch. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi v\u00e0o si\u00eau th\u1ecb, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u00e9: N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec trong si\u00eau th\u1ecb, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mua cho b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u00e1nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi r\u1eddi \u0111i.
\n– Lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt ra kh\u1ecfi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng:<\/strong><\/em> Vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea5u nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng m\u00e0 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu iPad n\u1eb1m ngay tr\u00ean b\u1ec7 b\u1ebfp, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t tr\u1ebb; n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi n\u00f3, h\u00e3y h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u1ed1i \u0111a vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i khi c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh.
\n– Cho b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt:<\/strong><\/em> N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng iPad trong 30 ph\u00fat khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t h\u1eb9n gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft c\u00f2n bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian. Khi h\u1eb9n gi\u1edd k\u1ebft th\u00fac, nh\u1eafc b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian ti\u1ebfp theo b\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng iPad v\u00e0 trong bao l\u00e2u. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ef1c quan c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

3. C\u1ea7n S\u1ef1 Ch\u00fa \u00dd<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 t\u1eeb ba m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u2014 v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ecb m\u1eafng.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u00e9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ed1 b\u1ecbch, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee n\u00f3i, \u201cch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt v\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.\u201d B\u00e0 cho bi\u1ebft, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eb1m \u1edf th\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng thu h\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd nh\u1ea5t, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111ang l\u00e0m b\u00e0i trong y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng t\u1eeb gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean. L\u1eddi khen c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e2u ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i \u1edf b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0i ch\u1ed7. Nh\u01b0ng, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e9m b\u00fat ch\u00ec, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cao l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean s\u1ebd l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady! Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. C\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec v\u1eady?\u201d<\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ngay khi ba m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang n\u1ea5u b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb em m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh ch\u00fang. Ho\u1eb7c, ch\u00fang tr\u00e8o l\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa\u2026 v\u00e0 nh\u1ea3y. Ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang v\u1eabn l\u00e0m v\u1eady, v\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd:<\/p>\n

– H\u00e3y gi\u00fap b\u00e9 t\u1ef1 ch\u01a1i.<\/strong><\/em> N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u1ea5y khi ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. H\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian ba m\u1eb9 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng khao kh\u00e1t s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean \u00f4m b\u00e9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

– B\u1ecf qua c\u00f3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/strong><\/em> C\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 khi h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1edfng cho h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, theo l\u1eddi Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee. B\u00e9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u00fa \u00fd, v\u00ec v\u1eady ba m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t tuy\u1ec7t ch\u1ee7ng”. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. Ba m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y khi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian, kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

– D\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 cho h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u00e9.<\/strong><\/em> B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, h\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi m\u00e0 ba m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cCon chia s\u1ebb b\u00fat m\u00e0u v\u1edbi anh trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t.\u201d<\/p>\n

– Gi\u00fap b\u00e9 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u00ednh ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.<\/strong><\/em> H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u00e9 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t h\u1eb9n gi\u1edd 5 ph\u00fat tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh v\u00e0 cho b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i khi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac. H\u00e3y khen b\u00e9 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Sau \u0111\u00f3, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n t\u0103ng th\u1eddi gian khi b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

4. K\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, gi\u1ea3m \u0111au, gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi do nhu c\u1ea7u k\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan \u2013 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng k\u00edch th\u00edch g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u2013 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y \u1edf tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00e1c k\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan. “C\u00e1c b\u00e9 n\u00e0y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1c quan v\u00ec ch\u00fang th\u00edch c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i,” theo Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Stephanie Ruggiero t\u1eeb Vi\u1ec7n T\u00e2m l\u00fd Tr\u1ebb em. B\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch th\u00eam, “b\u00e9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ee9 khi gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang b\u1ecb k\u00edch th\u00edch qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c.”<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm k\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan:<\/p>\n

– Nhai c\u00e1c v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 n\u1eafp b\u00fat ho\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o.
\n– Quay tr\u00f2n, v\u1ed7 tay, lao v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c.
\n– Ph\u00e1t ra \u00e2m thanh l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i (nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfng k\u00eau l\u00e1ch c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c ti\u1ebfng \u1eadm \u1eeb) ho\u1eb7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i (nh\u01b0 g\u00f5 tay ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e2n) trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 y\u00ean t\u0129nh.
\n– Ch\u1ea1m ho\u1eb7c ng\u1eedi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc.
\n– T\u1ef1 g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c (nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, c\u00e0o x\u01b0\u1edbc da \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn da d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00f3ng tay).<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh k\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan:<\/p>\n

– T\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0103n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u00f3n \u0103n ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 lo\u1ea1i qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o.
\n– B\u1ecbt tai khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e2m thanh qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn.
\n– N\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt v\u00ec m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.
\n– T\u1ef1 g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 (nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nghe \u00e2m thanh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, c\u00e0o x\u01b0\u1edbc da \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt lo \u00e2u).<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ho\u1eb7c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh k\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan:<\/p>\n

– Thay th\u1ebf h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p an to\u00e0n.<\/strong><\/em> V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e0o x\u01b0\u1edbc da \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt lo l\u1eafng, h\u00e3y cung c\u1ea5p cho b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i nh\u1ecf ho\u1eb7c th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 an to\u00e0n m\u00e0 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 “g\u00e3i” v\u00e0o nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea5t n\u1eb7n ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e3n d\u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

– \u0110\u1eb7t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho h\u00e0nh vi.<\/strong><\/em> M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1t ra \u00e2m thanh ho\u1eb7c quay tr\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01a1i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y gi\u00fap b\u00e9 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi thay th\u1ebf th\u00edch h\u1ee3p khi b\u00e9 c\u1ea7n k\u00edch th\u00edch gi\u00e1c quan.<\/p>\n

– T\u00ecm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p gi\u00fap b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, v.v.<\/strong><\/em> Ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u ho\u1eb7c lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, mua tai nghe ch\u1ed1ng \u1ed3n, \u01b0u ti\u00ean s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n phong c\u00e1ch khi ch\u1ecdn qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh khi \u1edf g\u1ea7n b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Thu th\u1eadp d\u1eef li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n h\u00e0nh vi<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Ruggiero cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi l\u00e0 thu th\u1eadp d\u1eef li\u1ec7u. “T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 vi\u1ec7c thu th\u1eadp d\u1eef li\u1ec7u ABC, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 Ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1, H\u00e0nh vi, H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3,” b\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch. “Ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean theo d\u00f5i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi h\u00e0nh vi di\u1ec5n ra, h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec, k\u00e9o d\u00e0i bao l\u00e2u v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9 ra sao.” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh vi, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Ruggiero cho bi\u1ebft, n\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea3y ra nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n trong ng\u00e0y, ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai l\u1ea7n trong tu\u1ea7n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng ho\u1eb7c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c theo d\u00f5i h\u00e0nh vi \u00edt nh\u1ea5t hai tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 xem c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen m\u1edbi. “N\u1ebfu ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi thay th\u1ebf ho\u1eb7c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n,” Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Ruggiero n\u00f3i. “Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u2018b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t tuy\u1ec7t ch\u1ee7ng\u2019, khi t\u1ea7n su\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00e0nh vi t\u0103ng l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y thay \u0111\u1ed5i.”<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00ec, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ba m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh sai \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Sau khi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi, n\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. B\u00e9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

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