{"id":2453,"date":"2024-11-22T09:12:31","date_gmt":"2024-11-22T02:12:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/?p=2453"},"modified":"2024-11-22T09:12:31","modified_gmt":"2024-11-22T02:12:31","slug":"tai-sao-be-o-nha-va-o-truong-lai-khac-nhau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/soulandskills.vn\/en\/tai-sao-be-o-nha-va-o-truong-lai-khac-nhau\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ea0I SAO B\u00c9 \u1ede NH\u00c0 V\u00c0 \u1ede TR\u01af\u1edcNG L\u1ea0I KH\u00c1C NHAU?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u1ea1 khi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00e1c nhau trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ba m\u1eb9 mong \u0111\u1ee3i b\u00e9 s\u1ebd c\u01b0 x\u1eed thep c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y t\u1ea1i b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c khi \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e9 \u2013 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 lo \u00e2u, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ADHD, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 \u2013 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi \u1edf nh\u00e0 so v\u1edbi l\u00fac \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ba m\u1eb9 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed lo l\u1eafng r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a Sam, n\u0103m nay 15 tu\u1ed5i, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n ph\u1ed5 t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7, ADHD v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc. M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, b\u00e0 Maratea Cantarella, gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Twice Exceptional Children\u2019s Advocacy, k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng, gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, “b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh,” b\u00e0 Cantarella n\u00f3i. Khi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0, “t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 b\u00e9 \u0111ang t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u00edch t\u1ee5.” V\u00e0 b\u00e9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 30 ph\u00fat v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i t\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c “b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.” Sau \u0111\u00f3, khi b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i, b\u00e0 th\u00eam v\u00e0o, “b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i.”<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e9, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t. Chloe, 8 tu\u1ed5i, m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng c\u00e2m c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc v\u00e0 lo \u00e2u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, b\u00e0 Kim Byman, n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u1edf nh\u00e0, Chloe l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t “b\u00e9 vui nh\u1ed9n, hay \u0111\u00f9a gi\u1ee1n, n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng.” Nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i. B\u00e9 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, d\u00f9 b\u00e9 tham gia \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00f3i. B\u00e9 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau trong c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau?<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng?<\/strong>
\nM\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t khi \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb ADHD, lo \u00e2u, t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp “c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tu\u00e2n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc,” Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Stephanie Lee, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng, cho bi\u1ebft. Khi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, “th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd.”<\/p>\n

C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng n\u00f3i th\u00eam, nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e9, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 thu\u1ed9c ph\u1ed5 t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7, h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u1ef1 v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng mang l\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh \u1edf nh\u00e0 “v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng di\u1ec5n ra,” c\u00f4 n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

\u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n khi \u1edf nh\u00e0. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh vi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gi\u00fap b\u00e9 tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n: n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ngay t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ho\u1eb7c th\u1ee9 hai, h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, ba m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho b\u00e9 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

K\u00ecm n\u00e9n tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong>
\nTi\u1ebfn s\u0129 Jerry Bubrick, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c D\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 R\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n \u00c1m \u1ea3nh C\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ebf t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7n Child Mind, nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u00e9 m\u1eafc c\u00e1c r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n \u00e1m \u1ea3nh c\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ebf (OCD) th\u01b0\u1eddng lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i trung h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 cao h\u01a1n. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng che gi\u1ea5u tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng. “Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u00e9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng,” Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Bubrick chia s\u1ebb, “v\u1edbi \u00edt tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng h\u01a1n v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u00e9 \u0111ang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c duy tr\u00ec h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u1ed5n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.”<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t l\u00fd do quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u00e9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0: c\u00e1c b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh” khi \u1edf nh\u00e0, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1edfi gi\u00e0y ra v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m,” Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Bubrick gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch. “Nh\u01b0 ki\u1ec3u, ‘\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.'” \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t m\u00ecnh, “c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng.”<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 g\u00e1i 10 tu\u1ed5i m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng OCD nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 \u0111ung \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c v\u1ebd ngu\u1ec7ch ngo\u1ea1c l\u00ean t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y d\u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh, d\u00f9 b\u00e9 \u0111ang r\u1ea5t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. “V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u00e9 gi\u1eef m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong l\u00f2ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 khi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0, b\u00e9 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5,” b\u00e0 k\u1ec3. “B\u00e9 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.”<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i. “Nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng, ‘Khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean n\u00f3i Johnny r\u1ea5t ngoan trong l\u1edbp, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y con b\u00e9 ng\u1ecd ngu\u1eady hay g\u1eb7p b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec nh\u01b0 \u1edf nh\u00e0,'” Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Bubrick cho bi\u1ebft. “Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 b\u00e9 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00fang.”<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf nh\u00e0? <\/strong>
\nV\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u00e9, nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng cao h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi \u1edf nh\u00e0, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee cho bi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n m\u00e0 ba m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u1edf nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 ADHD v\u00e0 lo \u00e2u th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5p khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng; vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ho\u1eb7c ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn. “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e9,” Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee n\u00f3i, “v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.”<\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 b\u1ecb lo \u00e2u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u00e0nh vi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0o khi \u1edf nh\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m b\u00e0i to\u00e1n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecdc to tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1edbp, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. “Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n,” Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, “v\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 l\u00e0m tr\u00f2, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n sang ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c.”<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7, \u1edf nh\u00e0 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00e9 y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u01b0 xem m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh hay ch\u01a1i Lego. Khi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u1edbn v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi ph\u00e1 r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u00e9? <\/strong>
\nM\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee l\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf gi\u1eefa nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. “N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c hay k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111ang gi\u00fap b\u00e9 \u1edf nh\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u00e9 trong c\u1ea3 hai m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng?” c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nh\u1edd c\u00f3 l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u00ec ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 \u1edf nh\u00e0. “T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1,” c\u00f4 n\u00f3i th\u00eam, “n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ki\u1ec3u \u2018khi con l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra\u2019 \u1edf nh\u00e0, h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean.”<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ba m\u1eb9 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch “\u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ba m\u1eb9 khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111ang l\u00e0m, b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 b\u00e9.”<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng h\u00e3y cho b\u00e9 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa sau khi chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0: “Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u1ed5n khi gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt y\u00eau c\u1ea7u trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 c\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u00e9 v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7.”<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Bubrick \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3i b\u1ee5ng, sau khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5. \u00d4ng khuy\u00ean ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean cho b\u00e9 \u0103n nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, gi\u00fap b\u00e9 h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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C\u00e1c li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 <\/strong>
\nC\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia khuy\u1ebfn ngh\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd h\u00e0nh vi, d\u00f9 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay \u1edf nh\u00e0, l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c h\u00e0nh vi (CBT). CBT \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh cho nhi\u1ec1u lo\u1ea1i th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00e1c nhau; \u0111i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u00e9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng CBT \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Bubrick gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng khi b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. “C\u00e0ng luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y, b\u00e9 c\u00e0ng th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o h\u01a1n,” \u00f4ng n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Bubrick c\u0169ng l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n CBT, ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ba m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n g\u00e2y ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. “Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i d\u1ea1y ba m\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m khi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 m\u1eafc r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n lo \u00e2u,” \u00f4ng chia s\u1ebb. \u00d4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 m\u1eafc OCD s\u1ee3 vi tr\u00f9ng. Ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 m\u1edf c\u1eeda gi\u00fap b\u00e9. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Lee cho bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, bao g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a CBT, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ba m\u1eb9 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra trong c\u1ea3 hai m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u00e9 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

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